Ok, so here's an update on the skin thing. The dermatologist did say we could go down to ONE bath a day per boy. So that helps a little! But at the moment, our day is pretty full. Here's our schedule for the moment...I'll try not to get too attached to it since it could change again at any time. (Oh, and it's dependent on when they wake in the morning, so the times can shift by a half hour or so. I'll assume on a "typical" day they wake at 8 am.)
8:00 am - Up for the day. Change both diapers and bring them into the living room. Feed both boys and spend some time playing on the floor. Mommy gets her toast and coffee. Move boys to jumperoo/exersaucer to play the rest of the time before nap.
9:00-9:30 - Move to boys' room to put on skin creams/change diapers if needed before nap time. Play on the floor in their room until nap time, typically 90 minutes after they wake up in the morning.
4:30-5:30 - Should be an afternoon nap. They still really need this third nap to get through the long hours til bedtime. And Mommy and Daddy need it for the upcoming marathon evening...
5:30-6:00 - Solid foods, they love avocado and sweet potato, peas are not so hot. We usually have to give them at least a half hour to eat, since sometimes they're sleepy or distracted. Some days they surprise us and gobble it up! Clean up the mess and try to figure out what Mom and Dad will eat for dinner.
Also, the only thing that got us here was time. Two months ago, I was going crazy, one month ago we were moving towards a consistent schedule, and now we're here, even though it's not perfect. I'm sure naps will change again soon, and who knows how feeding will go. But this is just for my memory, and for anyone who's curious how crazy it is at our house! :)